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Nov 21, 2023·edited Nov 21, 2023

You've spoken sensibly about how permissive parenting, the inability of parents to say 'no' to their children, often does more harm than good. But some of the harms of according adolescence a hallowed status seems to have flown under the GC radar ('hormones... changing bodies.... it's difficult for teenagers... it's traumatic') . Someone needs to point out that homo sapiens, not to mention the rest of the animal kingdom, has been going through adolescence without damage for at least 100,000 years and that up until the late 20th century being a teenager wasn't even a thing; rather, it was the norm for people, by their late teens, to be shouldering what we now consider to be adult responsibilities (i.e marriage with children and a full-time job). Setting aside cases of genuine trauma, instead of mummy and a team of psychologists, some real challenges, responsibilities and hardship, would probably be just the thing to get the minds of the current generation off their pronouns.

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The 1st link to ABC's Blocked doesn't work for me in the States, but this one does:

https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-07-11/blocked:-the-battle-over-youth-gender-care/102587506

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Thank you Hazel - will update :)

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